Once a while have a look at wedding photos.
This may seemed to be nothing special. But it is extremely vital to actually look at wedding photos together once awhile. It will bring in happy moments. It will bring a couple towards a closer tie.Trust me, it works! But choose a relaxing day to do this together.
Friday, August 24, 2007
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Tip No 10 # For A Happy Marriage
Religion
This happen to be the most sensitive topic of all. What seems to be rosy and loving in a courtship, may sometimes lead to disaster when religion is brought up.
In fact matters pertaining to religion ought to be settled before marriage. Make Clear whatever that is obscure and agree to it.
A personal experience,
Just months before my marriage to my wife, Agatha, we actually did discuss some issues pertaining to religion. She is a chatolic and I am the non catholic. But we are able to sought things out in the end. I must say it really is a mountain high hurdle
But in the end, things just goes on smoothly
Points to note:
Always respect each other religion
Do discuss the religion of your children upfront. Although this may be too far sighted but i would reckon you to discuss it upfront
Try to pracitce one religion as that would be better for your newly created family
This happen to be the most sensitive topic of all. What seems to be rosy and loving in a courtship, may sometimes lead to disaster when religion is brought up.
In fact matters pertaining to religion ought to be settled before marriage. Make Clear whatever that is obscure and agree to it.
A personal experience,
Just months before my marriage to my wife, Agatha, we actually did discuss some issues pertaining to religion. She is a chatolic and I am the non catholic. But we are able to sought things out in the end. I must say it really is a mountain high hurdle
But in the end, things just goes on smoothly
Points to note:
Always respect each other religion
Do discuss the religion of your children upfront. Although this may be too far sighted but i would reckon you to discuss it upfront
Try to pracitce one religion as that would be better for your newly created family
Tip No 9 # For A Happy Marriage
Tell Her that You really miss her A lot!
Have you come across that your wife come asking: ' Do you still love me?, How much do you love me?, Will you always love me? These are all signs that she reallly loves you. Probably that will also mean that she neeede more security, love & needed a little care.
So remember to tell her how much you really miss her. Once a while, ask her back: Do you still love me? How much do you actually love me? Will you always love me? Ha ha ha .. This is what we call the reverse phsycology.
Have you come across that your wife come asking: ' Do you still love me?, How much do you love me?, Will you always love me? These are all signs that she reallly loves you. Probably that will also mean that she neeede more security, love & needed a little care.
So remember to tell her how much you really miss her. Once a while, ask her back: Do you still love me? How much do you actually love me? Will you always love me? Ha ha ha .. This is what we call the reverse phsycology.
Tip No 8 # For A Happy Marriage
Having A Baby
This can be a very sensitive issue when it come to the above issue of getting a baby. Either party may not be prepared to get a baby. This cannot be, at all times be forced into. If forced, it may cause severe strain in a relationship. What make matter worst is that parents and parents in law comes into the picture.Perhaps they do not have evil intention to split a couple up. However, the great intention to hold the first grand child may actually worsen the situation.
Just both parties have to agree and happy to have a child. Let us put it this way, When it is time to have a child, God will definitely grant us One!
This can be a very sensitive issue when it come to the above issue of getting a baby. Either party may not be prepared to get a baby. This cannot be, at all times be forced into. If forced, it may cause severe strain in a relationship. What make matter worst is that parents and parents in law comes into the picture.Perhaps they do not have evil intention to split a couple up. However, the great intention to hold the first grand child may actually worsen the situation.
Just both parties have to agree and happy to have a child. Let us put it this way, When it is time to have a child, God will definitely grant us One!
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
Tip No 7 # For A Happy Marriage
Give Her Parents Some Pocket Money
It is important that some pocket money be given to your wifes' parents off and on. Bear in mind that you have to be sincere and spontaneous in doing so. This will make her feel that you care not only for her but also her parents. All Parties actually benefit from this. Her parents will also feel your care as well as they can be assured that you are indeed a good husband as well as wonderful son in law .
It is important that some pocket money be given to your wifes' parents off and on. Bear in mind that you have to be sincere and spontaneous in doing so. This will make her feel that you care not only for her but also her parents. All Parties actually benefit from this. Her parents will also feel your care as well as they can be assured that you are indeed a good husband as well as wonderful son in law .
Monday, August 20, 2007
Tip No 6 # For A Happy Marriage
Real Estate
Ladies are pretty sensitive when it come to Property, Property, Property. Remember to put one if not all of the properties under their name. This will render your wife more secure and happy with their spouses. This is no joke! I have got a banker friend( female) that just refuse to marry him due to the fact that the property is not under her name. Ha ha ha!
Ladies are pretty sensitive when it come to Property, Property, Property. Remember to put one if not all of the properties under their name. This will render your wife more secure and happy with their spouses. This is no joke! I have got a banker friend( female) that just refuse to marry him due to the fact that the property is not under her name. Ha ha ha!
Sunday, August 19, 2007
Tip No 5 # For A happy Marriage
Hug
Give your wife a simple hug. She will without any doubts be very happy by your action. This is action although small but very meaningful. In fact this applies to parents , relatives as well. It's a fact a hug really mean something to everyone!
Give your wife a simple hug. She will without any doubts be very happy by your action. This is action although small but very meaningful. In fact this applies to parents , relatives as well. It's a fact a hug really mean something to everyone!
Friday, August 17, 2007
Tip: No 4 # For A Happy Marriage
When your wife gets real mad!
When your wife gets real mad, don't get mad too. Oe else there will be a volcanic explosion. Just listen to her and nod.. Agree to all what she says. ( Even if she is at the wrong side!) Once she has cooled down. Only then, you can give her your opinion. Never ever give your opinion whilst she is at a boiling temperature. This applies to both spouses as well
When your wife gets real mad, don't get mad too. Oe else there will be a volcanic explosion. Just listen to her and nod.. Agree to all what she says. ( Even if she is at the wrong side!) Once she has cooled down. Only then, you can give her your opinion. Never ever give your opinion whilst she is at a boiling temperature. This applies to both spouses as well
Tip No: 3 # For A Happy Marriage
Give her Space
Give her some space or freedom. It is important in a relationship, both spouses should have some freedom to do their on thing. Can you imagine what would have happenned if a couple stick to one another 24 hours a day! That would be greatly insane. There will come a time that argument wold definitely arises. If that does not take place, if death arises to either party, the living party would find great difficulty coping with a loss of live.
Give her some space or freedom. It is important in a relationship, both spouses should have some freedom to do their on thing. Can you imagine what would have happenned if a couple stick to one another 24 hours a day! That would be greatly insane. There will come a time that argument wold definitely arises. If that does not take place, if death arises to either party, the living party would find great difficulty coping with a loss of live.
Thursday, August 16, 2007
Tip No 2: # For A Happy Marriage
Take Her Out Somewhere Interesting Every Month Once !
It 's as simple as that.. Need not do the usual stuff like watching movie.. Sometimes taking her to a park that was never visited before does the magic. Just make sure it is spontaneous and let it be a surprise!
It 's as simple as that.. Need not do the usual stuff like watching movie.. Sometimes taking her to a park that was never visited before does the magic. Just make sure it is spontaneous and let it be a surprise!
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
Tip No: 1 # For A Happy Marriage
Make Her Happy
It need not be complicated as buying flowers. It could be as simple as listening and showing that you really care. Occasionally, have some humour. Buy her a stock of flower! Most inportantly, be spontanoeus and there must be some element of surprise!
It need not be complicated as buying flowers. It could be as simple as listening and showing that you really care. Occasionally, have some humour. Buy her a stock of flower! Most inportantly, be spontanoeus and there must be some element of surprise!
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
The Wedding
Here comes the bell, Here comes the bell.....
It has always been my dream to tie the knot at a young age of 18. I still could recall i would get all sorts of wedding books and magazines at that age. I have even gone further by purchasing books on baby. ha! Needless to say i was rather ignorant as to what marriage was all about. Thinking that it is all about getting a girl friend. Date her .. And there it goes... Here comes the bell.... here comes the bell.
In reality, would that be really as simple as that?
How It Begins:
My dream really came true at age 32.. phew.. Much longer than i have actually expected.. ha ha ha.. i guess when one really eagerly wanted something so much, hindrance tend to crop up even more.
My lovely wife is Agatha Tan. Very Lovely indeed.... Got to know her from a local bank whilst i was working at a local insurance company. One of those flirtatious days... i was flirting with her. Giving her three stocks of roses. Her face turned blood red.. Somehow or rather, the relationship grew from there.. To cut things short, we got married on 3rd February 2007.
Recently, she told me that she was not really impressed with the flowers at all. What really attracted her then? She could not really give an answer to that.
I reckon it has something to do with :
1 Trust
2 Understanding
3 Caring
It took me about five Great Years to actually tie the knot with her. ( Tough Lady, huh)
What i learned since:
1 Lots of understanding needed.
2 Be frank to her at right time
3 Will have to compromise, be it with parents and parents in law. So they say when one marry a girl, one ain't just marrying her, one also marry her parents too.
More tips on marriage come soon!
It has always been my dream to tie the knot at a young age of 18. I still could recall i would get all sorts of wedding books and magazines at that age. I have even gone further by purchasing books on baby. ha! Needless to say i was rather ignorant as to what marriage was all about. Thinking that it is all about getting a girl friend. Date her .. And there it goes... Here comes the bell.... here comes the bell.
In reality, would that be really as simple as that?
How It Begins:
My dream really came true at age 32.. phew.. Much longer than i have actually expected.. ha ha ha.. i guess when one really eagerly wanted something so much, hindrance tend to crop up even more.
My lovely wife is Agatha Tan. Very Lovely indeed.... Got to know her from a local bank whilst i was working at a local insurance company. One of those flirtatious days... i was flirting with her. Giving her three stocks of roses. Her face turned blood red.. Somehow or rather, the relationship grew from there.. To cut things short, we got married on 3rd February 2007.
Recently, she told me that she was not really impressed with the flowers at all. What really attracted her then? She could not really give an answer to that.
I reckon it has something to do with :
1 Trust
2 Understanding
3 Caring
It took me about five Great Years to actually tie the knot with her. ( Tough Lady, huh)
What i learned since:
1 Lots of understanding needed.
2 Be frank to her at right time
3 Will have to compromise, be it with parents and parents in law. So they say when one marry a girl, one ain't just marrying her, one also marry her parents too.
More tips on marriage come soon!
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