Here comes the bell, Here comes the bell.....
It has always been my dream to tie the knot at a young age of 18. I still could recall i would get all sorts of wedding books and magazines at that age. I have even gone further by purchasing books on baby. ha! Needless to say i was rather ignorant as to what marriage was all about. Thinking that it is all about getting a girl friend. Date her .. And there it goes... Here comes the bell.... here comes the bell.
In reality, would that be really as simple as that?
How It Begins:
My dream really came true at age 32.. phew.. Much longer than i have actually expected.. ha ha ha.. i guess when one really eagerly wanted something so much, hindrance tend to crop up even more.
My lovely wife is Agatha Tan. Very Lovely indeed.... Got to know her from a local bank whilst i was working at a local insurance company. One of those flirtatious days... i was flirting with her. Giving her three stocks of roses. Her face turned blood red.. Somehow or rather, the relationship grew from there.. To cut things short, we got married on 3rd February 2007.
Recently, she told me that she was not really impressed with the flowers at all. What really attracted her then? She could not really give an answer to that.
I reckon it has something to do with :
1 Trust
2 Understanding
3 Caring
It took me about five Great Years to actually tie the knot with her. ( Tough Lady, huh)
What i learned since:
1 Lots of understanding needed.
2 Be frank to her at right time
3 Will have to compromise, be it with parents and parents in law. So they say when one marry a girl, one ain't just marrying her, one also marry her parents too.
More tips on marriage come soon!
It has always been my dream to tie the knot at a young age of 18. I still could recall i would get all sorts of wedding books and magazines at that age. I have even gone further by purchasing books on baby. ha! Needless to say i was rather ignorant as to what marriage was all about. Thinking that it is all about getting a girl friend. Date her .. And there it goes... Here comes the bell.... here comes the bell.
In reality, would that be really as simple as that?
How It Begins:
My dream really came true at age 32.. phew.. Much longer than i have actually expected.. ha ha ha.. i guess when one really eagerly wanted something so much, hindrance tend to crop up even more.
My lovely wife is Agatha Tan. Very Lovely indeed.... Got to know her from a local bank whilst i was working at a local insurance company. One of those flirtatious days... i was flirting with her. Giving her three stocks of roses. Her face turned blood red.. Somehow or rather, the relationship grew from there.. To cut things short, we got married on 3rd February 2007.
Recently, she told me that she was not really impressed with the flowers at all. What really attracted her then? She could not really give an answer to that.
I reckon it has something to do with :
1 Trust
2 Understanding
3 Caring
It took me about five Great Years to actually tie the knot with her. ( Tough Lady, huh)
What i learned since:
1 Lots of understanding needed.
2 Be frank to her at right time
3 Will have to compromise, be it with parents and parents in law. So they say when one marry a girl, one ain't just marrying her, one also marry her parents too.
More tips on marriage come soon!
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